Sunday, July 19, 2009

twelve. Dilemma

I'm just saying this hypothetically.

Let's just say you have a boyfriend whom you love so much and one day you found out that he was CHEATING on you. And not just cheating on anyone, but your best-fucking-friend. Wouldn't you be fucking furious about it? You told your boyfriend that you wanted to break up. He gave a really lame excuse about what had happened and said it wasn't true. You know, all that shit. And he promised that he won't do it again and stuff, he won't talk to other girls. What would you do? Would you give him the opportunity to make everything right? Would you give him that second chance?
Come on people, i need response.

Remember, i'm just saying this hypothetically :)



Loves, nashuha

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

well u could follow either theories.
its either, what are humans without mistakes
or once a cheater, always a cheater.
though it depends on the circumstances
like, if the explanation is rather solid
and acceptable, then why not a second chance.
but in this case, it wasnt. so if i wer to be
the one facing the dilemma.
i would move on cause there are loads of other guys out there and
i know i deserve better and also
cause i find guys who have once cheated,
hard to trust. :)

just lending a helping hand here~

your number one stalker,NASREEN ♥
haha.

Virginie Laurency said...

Haha, baby you know what i'm going to say.
HELLO NASREEN, i love you but i strongly disagree. hahaha,
well, let's see, he may be cheating but it may also be true that it could not have happened.
Even if it did, he's sorry about it. Not that I PERSONALLY would forgive him, but in this case, he's giving all up for you. That's something big. When a guy would sacrifice almost anything for you, it's a statement they're trying to make.
It's clear to see that he is hopelessly in love with you, and you know yourself, that you fuckign love him too. So, why torture the both of you? Why stay away from the one thing that can make the both of you happy?
I'd say give it another go. If it doesnt work out, then a third chance would not be necessary.

*scence of example*
- take serena and dan in gossip girls 2.
they broke up for a very valid reason. and it's worst than just cheating. it's sex scandals and stuff. so err, he gave her a second chance no?



p/s: im not gonna push you. just an opinion, and know that i'm behind you through it all.

 
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